the selfless relationship

meh nak share sikit ttg sesuatu dgn saudaraku sekalian, walaupun tak kena dgn musim pilihanraya ni.

this is for the unmarried couple i guess

i know, just who am i to rlly understand whtever u guys have been through and stuffs, but still, i wanna share bcs i just believe that there might be ppl out there who would understand or need some words. lets just do the best and let God do the rest.

dalam perhubungan ni, bila matlamat you Allah, you will come to a point where, you dah tak kisah kalau in the end, you tak bersama pon dgn dia. bcs he/she is not ur matlamat. a marriage life, or a rltionship should be a tool to achieve your ultimate goal, His mardhatillah. and how selfless and beautiful that relationship is, you biiznillah akan redho dgn semua yg berlaku. bcs akan ada dalam benak fikiran yang, kalau dgn kebersamaan itu, tidak menjadikan mana2 dari kamu berdua seorang hamba yg lebih soleh/solehah, dan khalifah yg makin berkualiti serta berakhlak mulia, hati you lebih mudah menerima, dan redho lebih mudah digapai. biarlah dia dgn org lain, atau you dgn org lain, selagi mana matlamat itu tercapai. and you ada satu senjata (doa), yg akan buat you rasa yakin. and you ada Tuhan, yang akan buat you rasa tenang. so yes, keep calm, and have faith.

now let me share again, this beautiful poem written by a friend.

Allah is the reason why, 

even in pain, i smile. 

in confusion, i understand.

in betrayal, i trust.

and in fear, i continue to fight.

fighting :)