bismillahirrohmanirrohim
W.O.M.A.N.
Woman.
Sometimes I wonder what it really
means to be a woman. It probably sounds weird since I am a woman myself, but in
the macro sense, I see the society has bred 2 kinds of extremes that has
deceived and distorted women’s mentality on how we should value and perceive
ourselves as an entity called a woman.
The first kind of extreme is the
notion that women are exceedingly dependent on others, as portrayed by media
and happened in jahiliyya. Female characters are objectified and we become a
sexual object that has no other functions than to be the love interest, or to
keep the plot going. We are dehumanized and stripped off of our value as a
human with any form of character. Cinderella who is beautiful and talented
lived her life in misery, waiting for a man to come and complete her, and that
man didn’t show up until she dolled herself up. Snow White needs to wait for a
man to kiss her only then she could ‘get a life’. It portrays that a woman
needs to reach certain standards to be accepted in society. It portrays how
dependent and needy women are to man that until that happened, our life has
never actually be meaningful. Such, a poisonous message it has on us woman,
distorts a woman’s definition on ourselves, our self-esteem and our dignity.
Subtly women are infused with this mentality, hence we rebelled against what
our nature and predisposition crave us to do. To be honored, governed, and
protected. Yet, all these inner cries were left unheard.
The other extreme states that,
women are so, exceedingly independent of others as what has being propagated by
certain ideologies. Some ideologist roared upon their freedom of rights,
willing to go through all the hassles for a cause that their limited mind think
would elevate them from being a slave to the society’s definition of a woman.
Fighting for an element that they called as right that ends up becoming an
endless desire. It lets their ego burning, setting up a mentality that women
are yet to achieve their peak of life until they dominate and conquer.
For a reason, Hegel is right with
his dialectical philosophy. A theory that explains about dialectical movement
where an extreme stance (thesis) breeds another extreme stance (antithesis).
According to Hegel, only then, the middle path or the moderate one called
‘synthesis’ showed up.
However in Islam, the synthesis or
the moderate principles were well-established even before that, before all
these extremes give their hi and hello. It was embedded in all principles Islam
has, creating a philosophy that governs our life, govern our decision making
process and governs our soul. Islam lies in between. Islam offers, moderation.
So let’s look beyond that. What is
it about moderation that is so special? All principles that Islam lies upon has
indirectly and subtly elevates the value of a woman. Women are set to freedom
that not many people are consciously aware of. It’s called, the freedom of
soul. Free, from any kind of salvation, except to God. Sumayyah, the first
syuhada marked a history that inspires many other lives throughout generations
with her determination to stifle the physical torture. Her so called owner
thought that he owned her. But Sumayyah deeply knows that he may own her body
but never her soul. This is what Islam brings us to. Islam frees us from any
kind of salvation including the intangible ones such as beauty, ego, desires
and other subtle elements that may end up becoming our sole cause of life.
Islam teaches us less about seeking something that is caped to this temporary
world, yet it leads woman to fight for a cause that is beyond what the world
could give. It’s called mardhatillah.
So women, treasure and appreciate
the value and honor that Islam has gave you. You are already complete in
Allah’s sights. You will never find other religions that honor you this much.
Put Him first before anything in this world. You will face tons of challenges
to prove your sincerity. More often than not, your efforts will go unnoticed by
the people around you, but as long as you know how high your value is in
God’s eyes, you will find strength, so keep your faith firm, warriors!
Because victory is on the side of those who believe in what they stand for, and
victory, starts with that freedom of soul (from worldly desires).
Written by: Farah Nabilah Abdul Rahman
Edited by: Nurfarhana Ramlee and Naelah Ariefah
HARMONI15 in memory and heart.
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i love you, fillah. |
MAY ALLAH BLESS HARMONI, ITS FIGHT, AND ITS PEOPLE,
with love,
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